There’s nothing wrong with “Vanilla” sex. But the word “vanilla” seems to have a smirk on its face, doesn’t it? This is the name people have come up with for “standard”, “conventional”, or “regular old” sex, none of these other descriptors any more sexy or stimulating than “Vanilla” itself. Most people find themselves in this category of lovemaking, even if they wouldn’t have chosen the label themselves. And most of these people are perfectly happy with living this sort of sex life. That is…until they’re not.
Much of the excitement of sex is about the crossing of boundaries, the discovery. Even between the two most committed and mutually satisfied individuals, there’s only so much to seek and discover, at least until you have to start introducing new elements. But don’t worry, fellow Vanilla lovers, this doesn’t mean you are going to have to start adding blades or fire to your sexy-time ritual (unless you’re into that and you know what you’re doing). There are plenty of miles between Missionary City and Kinksville. If you’re up for the journey, take a few baby steps in this direction. [Click Here To Keep Reading]