3 Ways You Are Sabotaging Your Sex Life

sabotaging your sex lifeOne of the great things about being in a relationship is the sex. But all too often for those in a long-term relationship, we end up sabotaging our sex life. Not on purpose, but unconsciously, we make it harder for us to connect with our partner sexually and end up sabotaging our sex lives because of the things we do (and in some cases the things we don’t do). Here are 3 common ways we do this and how to overcome them.

3 Ways You Are Sabotaging Your Sex Life

You Expect Too Much

In some cases, we expect too much when it comes to sex. We want it to be this magically event we see in the movies where the man woos us, then we make love until the sun comes up having had 350 orgasms.

When this happens, sex becomes less fun and starts to feel like a chore or a job. In most cases, sex isn’t like it is portrayed in the movies. Nothing about romance or relationships that the movies portray is real life and the sooner we accept this, the sooner we can get back to having great relationships and great sex. [Click Here To Keep Reading]

4 Types of Women Men Can’t Resist

types of women men can't resist

Every guy has a type of woman he is attracted to. Most guys are either into blondes or brunettes. Some are boob guys while others are ass men. And some guys like short women while others prefer tall women. But regardless of hair color or body type, there are 4 types of women men can't resist. They have a certain way about them that makes us guys want them, regardless of our own interests. Here these types of women are, in no particular order. The 4 Types of Women Men … [Click Here To Keep Reading]

Love Lab – Revolutionizing Online Dating

love lab

I’ve done the online dating thing. I was on just about every online dating site when I was single and looking for love. While the experience was a success for me, I did hit a bunch of bumps along the way. In my case, these bumps were mostly women using pictures from, oh, I don’t know, 15 years ago! Talking with others though, I know my experience was just the tip of the iceberg.So how do you do online dating and limit (or even avoid) these bumps altogether? Say hello … [Click Here To Keep Reading]

Is Finding Love Again Worth It?

finding love again

We’ve all been in that place. That place where we were head over heels in love with someone else and then without a sign (or at least a sign we were willing to see) they pulled the rug from under our feet and we were crushed. It hurt so much. What went wrong? How could this happen? Now you are tasked with asking yourself if finding love again is worth it. The answer my friend, is yes. Getting Crushed My story for getting crushed is similar to many others I would guess. … [Click Here To Keep Reading]

Do Long Distance Relationships Work?

do long distance realtionships work

The stereotype is that all long distance relationships fail. But it is not fair to paint all long distance relationships this way. There are in fact many of these types of relationships that thrive and succeed for the long term. Therefore the answer to the question of “do long distance relationships work” is not a simple yes or no. A lot of it depends on other factors. Luckily for you, you can control many of these other factors and therefore have a successful … [Click Here To Keep Reading]

How To Write A Love Letter

how to write a love letter

We’ve all seen The Notebook and know about the power of love letters. If you were watching the movie with your girlfriend, she might have even hinted at wanting to get a love letter herself. So now the pressure is on my friend. It’s time for you to write a love letter. But how? In this post, I will walk you through how to write a love letter that will knock her socks off and if you are lucky, you’ll be able to keep taking more things off of her! The Basics of How To … [Click Here To Keep Reading]

Signs of An Abusive Relationship

signs of an abusive relationship

Growing up, I was familiar with the saying “sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me”. What a crock. Sure it’s good to say, but for most people, it doesn’t work this way. The moment you are called a "fatty" or "four-eyes", your self-esteem takes a drop. Yes, some of us can brush it off, but many of us cannot. We internalize it and it becomes who we are. If your partner is doing this to you, it is one of the many signs of an abusive … [Click Here To Keep Reading]

Valentine’s Day By The Numbers Infographic

Valentines Day By The Numbers

I have to be honest, I have a love/hate relationship with Valentine's Day. When I was younger - like elementary school young - I didn't get it. Sure it was cool to get a Valentine card from Ralph Wiggum saying he "choo choo chooses me", but the day wasn't very special.Fast forward to my high school and college years, and it was a cool holiday. I got to show my girlfriends how much I loved them. But now that I am older, I am back to not getting it. I guess it's … [Click Here To Keep Reading]