Being in a relationship doesn’t mean foregoing an exciting sex life. Check out these three ideas to spice things up.
There’s nothing wrong with a ‘vanilla’ sex life. I would have loved to have a regular, if not too exciting, sex life in my teens and early 20s. The problem is when that conventional sex life becomes boring for one partner.
There’s no definition for a ‘vanilla’ sex life. It’s more the idea of excitement and stimulation you get from your sexual relationship with your partner.
When that relationship becomes routine, it can leave one partner cold and feeling like they need something more exciting.
Much of the excitement of sex is about the crossing of boundaries, the discovery. Even between the two most committed and mutually satisfied individuals, there’s only so much to seek and discover, at least until you have to start introducing new elements.
But don’t worry, this doesn’t mean you are going to have to start adding blades or fire to your sexy-time ritual (unless you’re into that and you know what you’re doing). There are plenty of miles between Missionary City and Kinksville.
If you’re up for the journey, take a few baby steps to spice up your sex life. [Read more…]