The secret to confidence isn’t in self-affirmations but in building confidence through success
One of the most important rules to attracting a woman is displaying a level of confidence in yourself. It’s something that appeals to the very basic instincts in women and something they find absolutely irresistible.
Unfortunately, it’s also unbearably frustrating for many guys.
All the dating books talk about it and the theme is always the same…just be more confident. As if it were that easy.
It reminds me of an episode of The Simpsons. Infomercial actor Troy McClure comes on the television and starts in with his usual intro, “Hi, I’m Troy McClure. You might remember me from other infomercials like Drink Yourself Thin and Get Confident Stupid!”
Yeah, get confident stupid!
I struggled with confidence for the longest time. I wasn’t necessarily insecure but I had trouble talking about myself or having that poise that attracted women.
Then I had that rare ah-ha moment. I had found the backdoor secret to confidence and wasn’t even trying. I was going to conferences, starting conversations and was having fun in any situation. [Read more…]