Men are searching for sexy older women like never before. Here’s how to win them back.
Have you noticed online that lots of guys are beginning to ask about older women and online dating experiences with these sexy ladies of age?
This isn’t just a stereotype or an urban legend. These aren’t just guys who are thinking out loud. These are horny young guys looking to find love and sex with sexy older women.
For the younger ladies, it’s become something of an epidemic. Guys aren’t as interested in younger women if they can get their wildest fantasies fulfilled by an older woman.
They’ve heard all the great stories, and it’s no surprise that older women have become such hot sexual commodities in recent years. You only need to turn on the TV and look at the reality TV shows to understand that older ladies are bringing a lot more sexual heat to the table lately.
Understanding what guys are seeing in older woman can help bring them back to your younger arms. Here are just some of the reasons why younger guys are on the prowl for sexy older women.
Why Some Men Prefer Older Women
There are a lot of reasons why older women are one of the four types of women men can’t resist.
Younger ladies may not really know what they want. That’s natural and most younger guys don’t know what they want either but it means a lot of breakups and arguments. Even if a guy isn’t looking for a long-term relationship, he wants a little stability in his love life.
Older women have played all the mind games already and may have had their heart broken by the games we all play when we’re young. She’s more likely to be direct with a man, saying exactly what’s on her mind. Guys like that because we aren’t able to read emotions and subtle cues. Guys don’t have to sit wondering whether to text or call her because the older woman has already called him.
Older women are less inhibited and more experienced in bed. They know sex is more than just lying there and know a few positions of their own. That’s exciting for a younger guy that might still be a little unsure of himself in bed.
In a cruel joke of physiology, women hit their sexual peaks at a different age than men. While males and females both go through puberty in their early teens, women do not hit their sexual peak until their early-30s. This means there are a lot of horny 30-something women with just as much sexual energy as a 20-something male.
Not surprisingly, older women have simply learned to put their drama to the side. I’m not saying that they completely lack personal drama. But they are able to forget that personal drama for a few hours while they’re enjoying lots of hot, sticky, nasty sex.
One last problem that has forced many younger men into the arms of older women is just competition and the dating game. A lot of guys are tired of going out every Friday night just to be rejected by every pretty girl in the club. He feels like he just can’t compete with the guys that look like Abercrombie & Fitch models. Not only is the older woman flattered to be getting the attention but the guy is actually getting somewhere.
Older Woman or No, Here’s How to Get Guys to Notice You
You shouldn’t have to change everything about yourself to find a boyfriend. This website is about understanding ourselves and what is already attractive to others so I’m not going to say you have to copy everything a guy sees in an older woman to win him back.
That said, are some of the ‘older woman’ persuasions already in your personality? Are there things there you can bring out?
Understand that guys want honesty and directness in a relationship. Being absolutely honest, even if it means a breakup and moving on, is going to help you find a long-term relationship faster.
Go beyond pickup lines and short-term relationships to finding the real love of your life. I just got done reviewing How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You. I was skeptical at first because of the title but the book is a great read and based on scientific studies into attraction and love.
You’ll find great advice including how to make an irresistible first impression and avoiding the ‘love bloopers’ that doom a relationship.
Part of the trend to men dating older women may just be a fad, guys jumping on the band wagon to see what all the talk is about. Younger women can reverse that trend by understanding what guys see as attractive in sexy, older women.